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How does one succeed in life?

12.06.2025 10:48

How does one succeed in life?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why was Super Buu so afraid of having Fat Buu torn out and becoming Kid Buu if he was going to destroy the Earth even before his transformation?

Procrastinates a lot.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Two of my family members have recently converted to Islam and have brought shame on my family. How do I get them back into the fold of Hinduism?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What I need from you?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Ask yourself:

That's it for today.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why are Republicans such intolerant people?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Why cant I sleep on my side after getting my covid vaccine? I just got the shot and I’ve been overstimulated from not being able to sleep, my arm is very sore and it hurts so much to move and I just want to sleep but it hurts if I lay on either side

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Does not procrastinate.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What should I do if I love a girl and she apparently doesn't love me?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.